Fear of Rejection

Hi, I'm Shaina

I’m a Clarity Coach, mindset expert and interior design enthusiast living in sunny Los Angeles. I help people get unstuck and create a lifestyle they’re proud of.

Rejection *aside from shame* is one of the most difficult human emotions.

When we feel threatened in losing connection — our primal brains go into panic mode.

+ disconnection
+ abandonment
+ judgement

(↑ this is our brain rejecting rejection)

It’s the reason that so many of us “play it safe.”

It’s the reason we don’t go after the things we really want.

It’s the reason we people-please.

??THAT experience of never “rocking the boat” and dodging rejection, criticism and judgement is available.

There are a lot of people who choose it because of FEAR.

But that’s not the experience you choose.

Because you are here to live out loud and piss some people off with your greatness.

You are here to confront (head on) the full-range of human emotion. 

Even the discomfort of rejection.

Because that’s how we grow and create new results.
Today I share:

  • The ONE belief that drove me to EASILY do scary things for 25 years of my lifesomething I’ve never admitted to until now! 
  • How to NOT deal with rejection (this will keep you stuck!)
  • The simple way to navigate rejection…so that you don’t compromise your dreams!

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My guilty pleasure is Bravo!
Real Housewives, Southern Charm, Vanderpump, Million Dollar Listing...I watch it all.
I'm a sucker for anything nostalgic.
I still watch reruns of Dawson's Creek on the regular
I know the lyrics to almost every 90's song.
Nathan says it's my hidden talent
My happy place?
Summer days. I love the beach, being tan, cookouts and country music!
Monica Gellar is my alter ego.
Cleaning and organizing are my therapy
I always have a candle burning at home.
I have a cabinet full of them.
My favorite movie?
Father of the Bride.
If I weren't a life coach...
I'd probably be an interior designer or do something in TV/ film production. Any chance I get to visit sets, I'm all over it!

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