Fear of Failing, Making Mistakes, Looking Stupid & Feeling Embarrassed

Hi, I'm Shaina

I’m a Clarity Coach, mindset expert and interior design enthusiast living in sunny Los Angeles. I help people get unstuck and create a lifestyle they’re proud of.

Let me tell you a quick story.

When I graduated coach training, I was Terrified– with a capital “T.”

I was scared shit list to get on the phone and coach another human being.

I was terrified of making offers to coach people.

My brain was like ‘OH HELL NO’. Let’s not do that and say we did.

So in an attempt to avoid any negative emotion that comes with being a beginner, I decided to take a lot of action elsewhere.

I built a website. I deigned biz cards and ordered like 500 of them (and never handed a single one out). I created pretty email templates.

?? It was my attempt at just doing it “right” and LOOKING PERFECT and not making any mistakes.

?? It was my attempt at playing it “safe.”

?? It was my attempt at avoiding rejection– people saying ‘NO’ to working with me.

?? It was my attempt to avoid any discomfort at all costs.

I THOUGHT I was becoming a great coach by taking a bunch of ACTION in the background.

When in reality, I was just wasting a whole lot of time by avoiding the one thing that would actually transform me into a master coach and make $$$. 

That one thing being…the MESSY MIDDLE.

Long story short.

I finally quit playing around and dove head first into the SCARY POOL OF FAILURE and guess what??

I came out the other side ALIVE!!!! and as a grown ass professional with a 6-figure business.

So my friend. If you’re tip toeing around the messy middle, knock it off and PRESS PLAY on today’s video!

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My guilty pleasure is Bravo!
Real Housewives, Southern Charm, Vanderpump, Million Dollar Listing...I watch it all.
I'm a sucker for anything nostalgic.
I still watch reruns of Dawson's Creek on the regular
I know the lyrics to almost every 90's song.
Nathan says it's my hidden talent
My happy place?
Summer days. I love the beach, being tan, cookouts and country music!
Monica Gellar is my alter ego.
Cleaning and organizing are my therapy
I always have a candle burning at home.
I have a cabinet full of them.
My favorite movie?
Father of the Bride.
If I weren't a life coach...
I'd probably be an interior designer or do something in TV/ film production. Any chance I get to visit sets, I'm all over it!

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